Monday, March 10

Why do you have to be sarcastic?

Seriously, I don't get it. Why? 

WHY?

Pernah terfikir tak perasaan orang yang awak semua perli tu? Pernah? 

Kalau tak pernah, nak kena perli ke? Nak kena setempek dekat muka? Nak rasa macam mana kena perli kasar menusuk jantung? 

Kalau pernah, kenapa perli orang lain pula? Saja nak bagi rasa apa yang awak semua pernah rasa, dekat orang lain?

Maybe you are being sarcastic to others just to make them feel what you have felt before, or being sarcastic is just one of the ways for you to have fun. Either way, I'm going to tell you that it will never end and world will never be a better place for all of us, ever.

I don't like it. I really don't. I don't like it when I see people being sarcastic to others, let alone me doing it to others. *sigh*

Contoh: 

"Hai, asyik pakai sleeveless dan short pants je kalau keluar. Macam lahh panas sangat dunia ni kan?" kata si Fina kepada Nani sambil didengari oleh Lisa yang berjalan melepasi mereka. **Ayat perli yang ditujukan indirectly kepada Lisa. 

Eh kejap, faham tak contoh tu? Haha. Kira Fina nak perli Lisa tentang pemakaiannya tetapi disuarakan kepada Nani instead of Lisa lah.

If you don't like anything about another person, tell it straight or point it out amicably. In other words, in a nice way. 

Kalau perli kasar menusuk jantung sampai menjatuhkan maruah dan perasaan orang lain dan mengumpat depan-depan, dah berapa dosa dah tu. *sigh, again*

Telling it straight to the point even though it might hurts that person; and being sarcastic to embarrass and bring that person down, are two different things.