I met him 3 years back. We were working at the same place. I was a customer service and he was a team leader n soon after that promoted to manager. (Now we both working in different places)
He is a very shy person and charming in his own way. I love stalking him. Whenever he walked in front of me or beside me or even behind me, my head turns 360 just to look at him. *giggles*
I would helped him and he too. Then we became close to the point where people asked me where is he and people would asked him the same question, "Where's nurul?" The next thing we both realised, we're lovers in a serious relationship.
I have to admit, it's not always a shiny bright day. We had our ups and downs. We had our arguments and differences. We had our obstacles. We had so many breakups and dramas in our life.
And one thing I'm grateful for is that despite our differences, arguments and breakups, we managed to find a way to stick together. We managed to go through almost everything together. We're like a magnet. Put us far away, there's always a way, or I would say, HIS way of putting us back together.
He's different. He's worth fighting for. He took my breath away. He took my heart away. His patience with me and his responsibilities with his family makes me fall deeper. I can't breath.. Heeeeelp! Hahaha. Yes, he has his own flaws. Who doesn't? He is still the guy that has the key to my heart.
Even I annoys him a lot, even I always pissed him off, even I have so many 'karenah', he is still here by my side.
I met him 3 years back and I fell deeper everyday. 3 years and still counting.I'm grateful I met him. Thanks Allah.
Mungkin coretan kali ini akan mengundang spekulasi / pandangan hina dan negatif segelintir pembaca but then again, bear in mind that this is just a humble opinion.
"I want to touch a dog!"merupakan satu acara yang dijalankan selama 2 jam di Central Park, Damansara. Acara berlansung dengan pendedahan mengenai cara sentuh dan samak/sertu anjing dalam konteks Islam dan memberi peluang untuk pengunjung mengatasi masalah takut dengan anjing.
Dalam Islam pun tak suruh kita membenci anjing. Malah anjing dibenarkan untuk pegang sekiranya perlu atau dalam erti kata lain, sekiranya bersentuhanan dengan anjing tetapi perlu disamak sekiranya terkena sebarang anggota badan anjing yang basah.
Saya tak lah hebat. Memang banyak khilaf. Maka, disini saya sertakan beberapa video ceramah dari ustaz-ustaz yang saya kerap tengok. Dan ini antara ilmu yang mereka sampaikan khas untuk hukum sentuh/bela anjing dalam Islam.
Prof Madya Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin
Ustaz Rasul Dahri
Ustaz Azhar Idrus
Ni semua ilmu untuk kita renungkan. Saya tak cakap sila lah pegang mana-mana anjing yang anda jumpa lepas ni. Tapi saya nak kongsi ilmu tentang konteks anjing dalam Islam. Ya betul, saya tak lah alim dan penuh ilmu didada. Tetapi tak salah kita kongsi ilmu sesama kita kan? :)
sumber: The Malaysian Insider
I don't think that event was to challenge the authorities, religion department or even anyone. Ianya sekadar untuk memberi kesedaran dan ilmu. Ada yang kata mencabar agama Islam, Rasulullah s.a.w, Allah s.w.t dan juga Imam Shafi'i.. *mintak dijauhkan*
Tapi jom kita baca dan renungkan kata-kata Imam Shafi'i:
“Setiap orang boleh mengingati sesuatu riwayat dan boleh pula melupakannya.
Adapun pendapat yang kami cetuskan atau kami dedahkan sumbernya tetapi
berlawanan dengan apa yang berasal daripada Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi
wasallam maka yang benar adalah apa yang berasal daripada Rasulullah sallallahu
‘alaihi wasallam, dan itulah pendapatku.”
“Apabila kamu mendapati di dalam kitabku sesuatu yang
bercanggah dengan Sunnah Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, maka
berkatalah kamu dengan Sunnah Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam dan
tinggalkanlah apa yang aku kata.” Dan dalam riwayat lain: “Maka ikutlah ia
(Sunnah Nabi) dan janganlah kamu berpaling-paling kepada perkataan seseorang
yang lain.”
“Apabila sahih sesuatu hadis maka itulah mazhabku.”
See, Imam Shafi'i sendiri pun meletakkan kedudukan hadis Nabi lebih tinggi dari kedudukannya.
In my opinion, niat penganjur tu baik untuk memberi kesedaran kepada semua umat Islam. Ada yang kata niat tidak menghalalkan cara. Betul.. Tapi siapa lah kita untuk kata apa dia buat tu haram sedangkan Allah lebih mengetahui.
If I've been given a chance, I might go because I want to overcome my fear on dogs (sebab pernah kena kejar masa kecik), learn how to deal with dogs and also how to "samak".
Saya mungkin kena hentam/kutuk untuk entri kali ni but then again, this is just my humble opinion.
Saya minta maaf sekiranya ianya menyinggung mana-mana pihak.
Pernah terfikir tak perasaan orang yang awak semua perli tu? Pernah?
Kalau tak pernah, nak kena perli ke? Nak kena setempek dekat muka? Nak rasa macam mana kena perli kasar menusuk jantung?
Kalau pernah, kenapa perli orang lain pula? Saja nak bagi rasa apa yang awak semua pernah rasa, dekat orang lain?
Maybe you are being sarcastic to others just to make them feel what you have felt before, or being sarcastic is just one of the ways for you to have fun. Either way, I'm going to tell you that it will never end and world will never be a better place for all of us, ever.
I don't like it. I really don't. I don't like it when I see people being sarcastic to others, let alone me doing it to others. *sigh*
Contoh:
"Hai, asyik pakai sleeveless dan short pants je kalau keluar. Macam lahh panas sangat dunia ni kan?" kata si Fina kepada Nani sambil didengari oleh Lisa yang berjalan melepasi mereka. **Ayat perli yang ditujukan indirectly kepada Lisa.
Eh kejap, faham tak contoh tu? Haha. Kira Fina nak perli Lisa tentang pemakaiannya tetapi disuarakan kepada Nani instead of Lisa lah.
If you don't like anything about another person, tell it straight or point it out amicably. In other words, in a nice way.
Kalau perli kasar menusuk jantung sampai menjatuhkan maruah dan perasaan orang lain dan mengumpat depan-depan, dah berapa dosa dah tu. *sigh, again*
Telling it straight to the point even though it might hurts that person; and being sarcastic to embarrass and bring that person down, are two different things.
