Thursday, September 6

Four letter words.


What is love? Well, to be honest.. I have no idea. I don't have the exact answer on definition of love. But what i know is that, it is a feeling. That's for sure.

And, we often hear this, "i don't need a reason to love you." or "do we really need a reason to love a person?" or etc.

Why? Why you don't need a reason to love a person? Why when it comes to hate, anger, jealousy, like, nervous, there is always a reason for that? You can't simply hate a person without a reason. You must have a reason to get mad at people. There must be some kind of attraction in order for you to like a person, kindness for example.

So, why when it comes to love, "it comes naturally and you don't need a reason for that". If you don't know why you love that person or you don't need a reason to fall in love, then you can just simply love some random people, right?

I'm just saying.


Love is a magical feeling. (ewaahhhh)

If you fall in love with a person because of his/her physical attraction like beauty, handsome or nice body, it will fade away. Trust me.

You cannot simply love a person just like that. Like, "okay, I love you". NO. You can't. Need no rush babies. Take time to know each other.

Love is something that we build on trust, tolerant, honesty, and understanding. You need to be with a person that you can trust and definitely won't betray your trust.

A person that you can tolerate on what ever things or situation possible. Or in other words, give and take.

A person that is honest to you. Readers, honesty is important. Really. You don't want a liar, don't you?

And a person that understands you well that he/she will know by just looking into your eyes without you explaining. *awwww :')  So that you don't have to write your bibliography or biodata for him/her to read to know you.You know what i mean.

And not to forget, love is also when you both can do crazy and stupid things together. Be together through the best and worst. Never shame when you girls don't put your makeup on or you guys just wear selipar jepun. :) And a person you can sit under the stars and just talk for hours and do nothing.

Well, comfortable is important too. I almost forgot about this. If you don't feel comfortable with that person, how on earth can you do all the above. kan?

All i'm saying is that every single things in our life happens for a reason. Not to forget, love too.

"A great relationship is about two things, first, find out the similarities, second, respect the differences" - anonymous

p/s: I love you for all that you are, all that you have been, and all that you're yet to be.